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Bible Verses About Friendship

Bible verses about friendship, being a good friend, and godly friendships.

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The Bible says a lot about friendship, mostly in Proverbs and Ecclesiastes, and it shows friendship in stories such as David and Jonathan and Ruth and Naomi. These verses are grouped so you can find the kind you need, whether for a card, a talk or your own reflection.

For a card to a friend: Proverbs 17:17 or Proverbs 18:24.
For a talk or lesson: Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 and the story of David and Jonathan in 1 Samuel 18-20.
For a friend who is suffering: Job's friends at their best sat with him in silence (Job 2:13).

Friendship verses, grouped by theme

Bible verses about what makes a true friend

Proverbs and Ecclesiastes on loyalty, honesty and help.

  1. “A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

    A proverb about the friend who loves at all times.

    Read in context for Proverbs 17:17
  2. “A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”

    A friend who sticks closer than a brother.

    Read in context for Proverbs 18:24
  3. “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”

    Iron sharpening iron: friends make each other better.

    Read in context for Proverbs 27:17
  4. “Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”

    Honest correction from a friend is worth more than flattery.

    Read in context for Proverbs 27:6
  5. “Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.”

    Good counsel from a friend compared to perfume.

    Read in context for Proverbs 27:9
  6. “Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not; neither go into thy brother’s house in the day of thy calamity: for better is a neighbour that is near than a brother far off.”

    Keep old friendships, including family friends.

    Read in context for Proverbs 27:10
  7. “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”

    The start of a short passage on why two are better than one.

  8. “For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.”

    One lifts the other up after a fall.

  9. “And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”

    The threefold cord, often read at weddings.

  10. “He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.”

    On covering an offence rather than repeating it.

    Read in context for Proverbs 17:9
  11. “A froward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends.”

    A warning about gossip that separates close friends.

    Read in context for Proverbs 16:28

Friendship with Jesus and with God

Places where Scripture uses the word "friend" for a relationship with God.

  1. “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

    Jesus speaks of laying down his life for his friends.

    Read in context for John 15:13
  2. “Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.”

    Spoken to the disciples on the night before the crucifixion.

    Read in context for John 15:14
  3. “Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.”

    Jesus explains why he calls them friends and not servants.

    Read in context for John 15:15
  4. “And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God.”

    James recalls that Abraham was called the Friend of God.

    Read in context for James 2:23
  5. “And the LORD spake unto Moses face to face, as a man speaketh unto his friend. And he turned again into the camp: but his servant Joshua, the son of Nun, a young man, departed not out of the tabernacle.”

    How the LORD spoke with Moses in the tabernacle.

    Read in context for Exodus 33:11

Friendships in the Bible

David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, and Job's friends at their best.

  1. “And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”

    The beginning of David and Jonathan's friendship.

    Read in context for 1 Samuel 18:1
  2. “Then Jonathan and David made a covenant, because he loved him as his own soul.”

    They make a covenant of friendship.

    Read in context for 1 Samuel 18:3
  3. “I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing the love of women.”

    David's lament after Jonathan's death in battle.

    Read in context for 2 Samuel 1:26
  4. “And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God:”

    Ruth refuses to leave her widowed mother-in-law Naomi.

    Read in context for Ruth 1:16
  5. “Now when Job’s three friends heard of all this evil that was come upon him, they came every one from his own place; Eliphaz the Temanite, and Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite: for they had made an appointment together to come to mourn with him and to comfort him.”

    Job's three friends come to mourn with him and comfort him.

    Read in context for Job 2:11
  6. “So they sat down with him upon the ground seven days and seven nights, and none spake a word unto him: for they saw that his grief was very great.”

    Before they spoke, they sat with him in silence for seven days.

    Read in context for Job 2:13

Choosing friends and being a good friend

Practical wisdom for the company you keep and the friend you are.

  1. “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”

    The company you keep shapes who you become.

    Read in context for Proverbs 13:20
  2. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.”

    Paul quotes a well-known saying of his day.

  3. “Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:”

    Advice about friendship with someone given to anger.

    Read in context for Proverbs 22:24
  4. “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!”

    A short Song of degrees about living together in unity.

    Read in context for Psalm 133:1
  5. “Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;”

    Brotherly love and honouring one another.

    Read in context for Romans 12:10
  6. “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”

    Sharing both joy and sorrow.

    Read in context for Romans 12:15
  7. “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”

    Carrying one another's burdens.

    Read in context for Galatians 6:2
  8. “Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.”

    Building one another up.

Friendship in Proverbs

Proverbs praises the loyal friend, warns about gossip and flattery, and values honest correction. Its sayings are short observations about life, best read as wisdom rather than promises.

Questions about friendship

What does the Bible say about a true friend?

Proverbs 17:17 says a friend loves at all times, and Proverbs 18:24 speaks of a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Who were friends in the Bible?

David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, and Paul and his companions such as Timothy are well-known friendships. Jesus also called his disciples friends (John 15:15).

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